This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for the life that
you want for yourself. You manifest your own destiny during these
crucial years.
Every move you make is a test. Don’t f*ck it up. These are the 20 Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make In Your 20s.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Never do anything just because it’s convenient for you. Look to
challenge yourself and build your own dream instead of building someone
else’s. Even if it doesn’t exactly make sense now, create something with
great value so you can cash out big. Always look to the future and
never for immediate compensation. What are you going to do with those
weekly wages anyways? Stop being so entitled and pretending like you
deserve cash, prizes and vacations just yet. You will soon realize once
you’ve made it that making money doesn’t make you happy. It’s the
journey.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
While all of your friends might be doing it, don’t fall into the trap of
getting into a relationship. Sure it seems like the right thing to do,
but your 20s are entirely too crucial for your personal growth for you
to be focusing on fulfilling the wishes of another individual. Not only
does it make you complacent with where you are in life, but it makes
your life boring. When your business is at stake and your future is
resting on your shoulders, the last thing you need is to be bogged down
by an insecure lover rushing you home. Get out there, meet new people,
test the limits and have fun. It will take you to the places you’ve
dreamed of going.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to become one
Instead of going overboard on the Gucci monogram and bottles in the
club, as if you just signed to Rocnation, spend the time focusing on
your career. Every second counts and if more time is spent pretending to
be the person you want to be instead of becoming that man, then you’ll
sink in quick sand without even knowing it. A real man is willing to
make sacrifices. If you aren’t down to put in the work, then please
don’t act like you are. You can enjoy the success when you actually
attain it.
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
The in-crowd may be tempting, but you’ll probably fall victim to
surrounding yourself with social climbers and bottle wh*res. We know you
feel entitled to celebrate, but please relax. It’s never attractive
when you act as though this is the last time you’ll ever see this in
life. Make connections with people based on trial and error, not
presuppositions and drunk ranting about what they can do for your
business. If you ever want people to take you seriously, then you have
to take them seriously. Just because you think you trust someone doesn’t
always mean you can. Heed any red flags in the past before jumping into
any kind of venture with them..
16. Not caring because you only live once — that is for fools
We all are guilty of irrational decision-making in our 20s. Fast people
and fast times with money in your pocket always lead to over-extending
yourself. A life of partying, heavy drugs and pretty much having that
YOLO attitude will leave you flat on your ass. Get focused and lock into
what you’re supposed to be doing. If you don’t know what that is, then
you better figure it out ASAP.
15. Making all your wants, needs
Expensive women and cheap thrills coupled with the expensive sneakers
should not be on the list of your needs. Setting the foundation for your
business and team is far more important than updating your wardrobe and
chasing sex. Distinguish between what you want and what you actually
need. Make sure your priorities are in tact or you will lose your track.
14. Forgetting that family comes first
Those who supported you before anything deserve to be taken care of when
you reach your success. If you aren’t doing this for the ones you love,
then you’re not doing it right. Family comes first, no matter what
happens. If you work for whom you love instead of just yourself, you
will get far.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything in life
Hold yourself accountable for everything. At the end of the day, all you
have in the world is yourself — so go hard. Don’t look to anyone for
answers and instead of making problems, create solutions. Whether it was
that job you wanted, the funding you needed or the love you think you
can’t live without, there is no one that can be held accountable in this
universe except for you.
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve down time
Unless you’re fornicating with Victoria’s Secret models in Monaco this
weekend, you shouldn’t even be thinking about taking a break any time
soon. You need a vacation? What have you accomplished? Mark Cuban spent 7
years building out his first business before he even took a break.
Don’t get lazy now.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn't teach you anything
A bad job is like a bitchy girlfriend that gives bad head. Truthfully,
the only reason you’re there is because it is the safest and easiest
thing you know. Any job or relationship that allows for you to get
comfortable should be avoided at all costs. The last scenario you could
ever want is becoming like the rest of those miserable, 40-somethings
faced with weekends of minivans and soccer practice.
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
You can be aware of the trends, but never follow them. If all your time
is spent trying to adjust to your surroundings, you’ll get lost in the
crowd all the more easily. Success and greatness are constructed by
trendsetters themselves, not those who latched on to what’s currently
trending. We hope that you don’t have any aspirations to look like your
favorite rapper. Temptation to be influenced by those who you aspire to
be like is easy, but no one finds their calling following in the
footsteps of another.
9. Failing to energize those around you
Although you may sometimes think there is a lack of talent in your
networks — this is never the case. It is your sole responsibility to
inspire, encourage and drive those around you to success. Failing to do
so only confirms that you fall victim to that which you accuse others
of. Change and greatness can be sparked everywhere, but bring it upon
yourself to trigger it.
8. Think you need to stop learning and growing
You have more zeros at the end of your bank statement, stamps in your
passport and women in your bed than you had ever imagined. Don’t
consider this your victory lap, but rather as a taste of greatness. Do
you live to enjoy the moments you dreamed of or a lifetime of
unimaginable success? The common misconception that once things are in
your favor, you no longer have to put in the 3:00AM work hours is a
dangerous problem. The fewer nights that you’re willing to put in the
work, the fewer opportunities you will have to celebrate your
achievements in the future.
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
Your 20s will be accompanied with a slew of poor investments by yourself
and those around you. Whether rich or poor, there will always be
someone in your circle that will need a helping hand. If you ever think
you’re going to see that money again, you’re sorely mistaken. If there
were a plan of action and re-investment, then the truth is that you will
not see $1 back. Times are tough, especially in your 20s and finding a
route back to financial freedom is often seen only when winning the
lotto or signing your first deal with Ca$h Money Records. Of course
miracles do happen, but the probabilities that you’ve essentially given
the money away are far too high.
6. Spending your money on women who aren't escorts
Your sex life is an investment — and the smarter the deals you execute,
the savvier of an investor you become. Free sex is the most expensive
sex in the world. Instead of navigating through an ambiguous investment
in which you shower your woman with cash and prizes for the mediocre sex
provided, deal with a professional as soon as possible. Although some
of you may immediately jump to the negative connotations of a woman who
is paid for sex, we suggest you take one step back. As an entrepreneur
herself, why would you not want to deal with someone who has the same
honesty and integrity that you do. Want a best friend? Buy a puppy. Want
great sex? Call an escort.
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add no value to your life
You’ll be sucked down into the abyss right with them if you don’t cut
the fat of the group. Family and friends could have been great to you as
a child, but if they no longer hold the value and inspiration that is
needed for you to thrive in life, then cut them loose. The only
individuals you should be surrounding yourself with are those that
challenge your ideas and motivate you to find the next solution to your
problems. No, not the pessimistic A*#Ss who shoot down your ideas with
their negativity, but rather the ones who genuinely want to see you
succeed no matter what you do in life.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending every dollar you have
If our check is for $9, than we’re most likely spending $30. Between
credit cards, school loans and every other avenue for attaining a quick
dollar, our need for immediate gratification is worse than ever. The
truth is it’s about making more money, not saving it. But at the same
time, if you have no means for expanding your revenue channels then you
must be able to save a few dollars here and there. No one like to have
to walk to work because they blew every dollar at LAVO.
3. Mistaking safe sex for anything besides anal
If you don’t want to have a child then you better limit your excuses. As
vulgar as it may sound, sometimes there are only a few options in life,
so you must avoid all potential margins of error. The road to success
is not paved with having responsibilities of children and your future
wife to be. This is a somewhat lonely journey that you must take by
yourself and those you love will be able to celebrate with you after.
2. Dating unstable women with mommy and daddy issues
We need to control the invincibility we all feel when it comes to women.
Whether she’s a stripper or a sorority girl, we feel the need to be the
knight in shining armor for our women. As chivalrous as this may seem,
we hate to break it to you, but you will never be able to change anyone.
By setting yourself up for a losing battle, you’ve only ensured your
misery for the next few months. She’s clingy for a reason, don’t be her
Dr. Phil.
1. Forgetting that karma is a huge b*tch
Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved, stealing your
friend’s girlfriend, or plotting against an ex-partner, we must always
remember that karma is the biggest b*tch we’ve ever met. There is
nothing more true than the fact that whatever goes around comes around,
and you are not immune to the cosmic forces that be. We’re not asking
you to go on your Mother Teresa pilgrimage, but don’t be surprised when
reality catches back up with you and brings you to your knees. Be a good
person. You’ll get further in life.
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