I know my story will lead people to attack me but I will appreciate any help I can get.
I got married to my loving husband in April 2010. Although at first, I was not really in love with him, but because I was getting older, and I could not find any good man from my religion and tribe, my parents introduced me to him and pressured us into marriage.
The first time I had an affair, it was a mistake. I ran into my ex and we exchanged Blackberry pins. We chat all the time and at that point, I was not really happy in my marriage so I encouraged him. Soon after, we started to hang out and started sleéping together. He eventually moved from Nairobi to Kisumu so that ended our affair.
Since then, I have had a few flings with 9 more men including my friend's husband. I currently have two children with my husband but I feel unsatisfied.
My husband is very loving and kind, and I have grown to love him but I'm not able to stop this extra-marital affair. The sad thing is that my husband has no clue what is going on. I never give him any reason to suspect. I delete all my phone messages even though he does not even check my phones. I make sure I cover my tracks because I want to keep my family together.
Recently I talked to my Pastor who encouraged me to keep praying and fasting but this isn't helping because still keep my men outside and I still see them.
I know I need to stop, but I don't know how. Please Help.
Rachael.
I got married to my loving husband in April 2010. Although at first, I was not really in love with him, but because I was getting older, and I could not find any good man from my religion and tribe, my parents introduced me to him and pressured us into marriage.
The first time I had an affair, it was a mistake. I ran into my ex and we exchanged Blackberry pins. We chat all the time and at that point, I was not really happy in my marriage so I encouraged him. Soon after, we started to hang out and started sleéping together. He eventually moved from Nairobi to Kisumu so that ended our affair.
Since then, I have had a few flings with 9 more men including my friend's husband. I currently have two children with my husband but I feel unsatisfied.
My husband is very loving and kind, and I have grown to love him but I'm not able to stop this extra-marital affair. The sad thing is that my husband has no clue what is going on. I never give him any reason to suspect. I delete all my phone messages even though he does not even check my phones. I make sure I cover my tracks because I want to keep my family together.
Recently I talked to my Pastor who encouraged me to keep praying and fasting but this isn't helping because still keep my men outside and I still see them.
I know I need to stop, but I don't know how. Please Help.
Rachael.
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With only ten men you can't beat Irene Uwoya's record, and she is just happy; you can continue with your current behavior if it pleases you. If you seriously want to stop it, then my advise is for you to get satisfied with your husband, and encourage him to have sex with you very frequently, sometimes at odd places like in bathrooms or on a floor. Don't let your husband or anybody else know that you have been screwed by other men, because that will tear down the husband's trust causing an irreparable damage. Men just dislike women who sleep with other men.
ReplyDeletethe worst you can do is come clean....some stuff are better off if kept a secret....however you need to reflect on what pushes you into such a behaviour.........because all you keep saying is how good your husbnd is....you need to identify the weaknesses then you can work from there. I a man....i would hate if my gal cheated on me..i dnt lyk even the sight of my girl flirting wit anthr dude...now my wife shaging ten diffrnt pipo it would kill me.....or i would kill her....bt realy u need to stop t dats way too fucked and totaly unforgivable in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteYou are by all standard a sick woman.seek help from professionals like your dr, psychologists and therapists.This 'hot pants' mania needs to be stoped before you contract serious deseases and possible dumping by your unsuspecting husband.
ReplyDeletekwa wote kumi bado hujapata mmoja wakukutosha basi utakuja tosheka na ukimwi ,so unaitaji maombi sababu kwa wanaume kumi hinge kosa mmoja ambaye atakutosha,na kama ni magonjwa basi kazi nzema ,na uzee unakuja
ReplyDeleteWe unatakiwa uwe muwazi kwa mume wako! mwambie unataka aku fuck vp ili ulidhike! km utaona haikusaidii nenda kakeketwe maana ukikeketwa nyege mshindo zinakata kabisa! in my opinion ur a fuckn bitch!
ReplyDeleteduh! akakeketwe?
DeleteWe unatakiwa uwe muwazi kwa mume wako! mwambie unataka aku fuck vp ili ulidhike! km utaona haikusaidii nenda kakeketwe maana ukikeketwa nyege mshindo zinakata kabisa! in my opinion ur a fuckn bitch!
ReplyDeleteCopy and paste from kenyan-post but You have increased number of men from five to ten for three years. Shame Editor!
ReplyDeleteIs your husband not good looking man? if he is not good looking man will you eat the good looking man as food, which man would you love the good looking man but he is always beating you but giving you good romance and this man who treats you as a queen. what exact do you want from man? you have said that you had time was going may be all this time the good looking men nobody proposed to marry now those who would have had married you {the good looking men} all this men are you using you for sex that so if your 4O are caught these men who are using you will not want to see you anymore and if you friend found out she will kill you for tempering with her husband. Honestly this man he may also not have loved you because nobody met his her friend it is thru parents which is good this man has learned to love you. My dear sis Love this man with whole of your heart. when you loose this man you will cry bitterly. and it will be very difficulty to win his heart.
ReplyDeleteHuo ni umaraya.
ReplyDeleteJust be serious in prayer coz, nothing else can help your sickness.
ReplyDeletemko wengi malaya wa aina yako, kama umzimii mchizi muweke wazi ucje ukamng'oa na ukimwi.
ReplyDeleteyou are prosttute mia kwa mia marriage is a life commitement,you pleadged to love your husband for ever and leave all other beast but now ten .serious? so your husband is your eleventh best? i hate you. go to hell now if god is there let him revealed the inner sinfull side to your dear husband and save him from aids .he needs to remarry honesty /faithfull womam not you with jezabel spirit satan wewe ,mubwa malaya i curse to die now-pastor
ReplyDeleteim mr kitombi, nafikiri unaitaji mboo kubwa sana ,ndefu na nono ili utosheke,njoo kwangu baby niko na mboo ya urefu wa 9.33' unono wa 6.5'' ufuck round 7-9 per knigtht,please contact me for guality satifactory wild one knight stand to cure your lust
ReplyDeletekuma yapataji kama hao wote washakutomba,na kabla ya kuolewa ulitembea na wangapi?
ReplyDeletekuna mwenzako bibi ya mtu na ni kiongozi wa wakina mama katika kanisa la pefa. kalela pri sch. kenya voi yeye utombwa na kila mwanaume mchana hata watoto wa shule, najua kama 19 na wa ishirini ni pastor ya hiyo kanisa ambaye hajaowa .husband ashajua na kanisa haendi tena.ujifanya ni shetani , bali uongea kisiri kama bwana hayuko nyumbani. hata mimi nishamtomba maratatu pale kwake nyumbani tena kwa kitanda ya ndoa.mbili mchana na moja usiku kabla sijajua tuko mwingi.ukimutia na kumzukua vizuri usema jesus jesus jesus hapo hapo tamu tamu------mwisho ukuomba uje tena na upenda sana wanaume wenye katika ndoa,hajali mboro ndogo au kubwa. hata ufunga duka lake umutombe mchana na amechangaza kila mtu mtaani humo, kama wewe ni mwaume na unataka kutombana sana malaya ndio huyo - w,mwandoe
ReplyDeletenipe directions ama phone number yake tafadhali ,ninahamu sana nimtombe kuma na mkundu leo
ReplyDeleteuuuuuuhi shetani hashindwe malaya sana tupu
ReplyDeletewacha udaku unatombwa kwa raha zako endealea sana hata niko tayari nikutie mimi ni jirani yako leo /au kesho nitacome faceto face ,i know you dont use fake photo sawa
ReplyDeletei know you .you are not married just fake imagiations wacha wewe irene
ReplyDeleteiknow you your no ni 0718593853
ReplyDeletei cant believe this ,if real then its end times
ReplyDeletepastor gibson mghanga of pefa church kalela voi stop fucking married women from your church.please marry your own and live by example.you have been fucking one of your leader in broad daylight at her matrimonial bed since 2009 august.watoto wa choir wachana nao, windows wachnana nao- the head of this church must investigate the activities of this pastor on the following grounds
ReplyDelete1.why is he always health married women
2.his source of power
3.why is all his prophesies are alway on negative sides and are alway directed to un happily married women
4.why does he preached on witcraft alone
5. why does most women dream on having sex with him and when the reveal to him for interpretations the answer is that GOD has oerdered him to fuck her.
6.why borrows money from women and pray to them without knowldge of their husbands
7.why he has been fucking the the above subject
IF YOU DONT ACT I WILL PUBLISH THE LIST OF ALL MARRIED WOMEN HE HAS FUCKED /FAMILIES DESTROYED DUE TO HIS BEHAVOUR
huyu ninamjua hajaolewa bali ni malaya
ReplyDeletetafadhali twmbie anapatikana wapi tuwe wateja wake
ReplyDeleteyuko kanisa la pefa ,pale shuleni kalela primary school, voi taita taveta county
ReplyDeletenext week i will publish list of married women in pefa church/choir ladies pastor gibson is having mpango wakando .nitomboe au nisitomboe?
ReplyDeletei know the lady and the pastor.
ReplyDeletei dont believe all this comments of this lady.i know the pastor mentioned here and that woman i can confirm the pefa pastor is a humaniser.b4 he got saved was mad due his behaviour of fucking married women from his village.one husband from taita hills contacted witch doctor from mombasa to punish him.thats is how he went mad b4 he was healed by god.upto now he is single
ReplyDeleteall these are nonsense,i believe mature people can do anything so long as they consent to each other .stop umbea
ReplyDeleteghai hii ni real
ReplyDelete