I am so confused and didn't know where else to go with such a tough decision! I will just give you the main details and maybe you could help me out.
I have been married for almost 2 years to a perfect husband. I trust him with all my heart. He does almost everything a wife wants. We do have some difference in some areas in our marriage but other than that all is perfect. My husband and I also share 3 children together.
My husband has a good friend I will call 'Jim'. I have known Jim ever since I met my husband. About 2 years ago I started feeling an attraction towards him but never revealed it to anybody. Some time ago, we were all out together and Jim and I both had too much to drink and began to discuss this mutual attraction. After that night nothing more was ever really said.
Last weekend, we were all hanging out again and Jim and I started talking about our feelings again. Saying that maybe we should just sleep together and then maybe the whole thing would go away since we will know what it would be like, (to make matters worse, he is also married with children). We continued to joke about this throughout the night.
Yesterday he stopped by to see my husband but he wasn't here so we started talking. We discussed how if nobody knows, then nobody can get hurt. We also discussed consequences and many other things. I know it would be immoral for me to cheat on my husband, but what do I do with these feelings?
I am not a bad person, I have never been a cheater! We made plans for a 'date' today while my husband is at work. The more I have been running this through my head the more I realize how much is at stake.
Should I do it once and then maybe that will kill the curiosity? Or just tell Jim that we just can't do it?
I guess I know what I SHOULD do, but honestly tell me what you would do in this situation.
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ReplyDeleteJust don’t and forget about it, because if you do it, that will be beginning of the terrible mistake in your life you will regret
ReplyDeletePlease don't do it for your own good..
ReplyDeleteDont do its stupid feelings kumbuka mumeo akijua ushaharibu familia yako watoto watapata tabu wanahitaji malezi ya baba na mama
ReplyDeleteDont be silly, today is Jim, tomorrow John then the next day someone else is attracted toy u and u are attracted to them, will you do it with them all for the sake of killing the curiosity? ''remember curiosity killed the cat'' u claim that you are not a bad person but just listen to yourself and what you want to do, does it still make you a good person? what is your definition of a bad person/good person. Just call it off, take a minute try to be in your husbands shoes and you will came up with a thoughtful answer.
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ReplyDeletebe back to your God and stop that
ReplyDeletehow if your husband date with your the filling that u will fill is dat dat ur husband will feel if he will notice that
be back to your God and stop that
ReplyDeletehow if your husband date with your the filling that u will fill is dat dat ur husband will feel if he will notice that
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