Uncle Shamte, mumewe Mama Dangote na babake wa kambo msanii Diamond Platnumz amekana madai kwamba mkewe ana wajibu muhimu katika kufeli kwa uhusiano wa mwanawe na wanawake kadhaa akiwemo Tanasha Donna.
Akizungumza na wasafi media alisema yeye na mke wake huwashauri tu watoto wao na kuwaelekeza na sio kuwapa maagizo ya wanayofaa kufanya katika mahusiano yao kama inavyodaiwa mitandaoni .
Mama Dangote hajahusika kamwe na mahusiano ya kimapenzi ya Diamond na hafai kulaumiwa kwa kufeli kwa uhusiano wake na Tanasha au mwanamke yeyote
“ mke wangu ni rafiki mzuri wa watoto wake lakini kamwe haingilii uhusiano wa diamond .huwa tunawashauri tu wakati tunapoona kwamba mambo hayaendi vizuri .mwisho wa siku ni kwamba lazima watu watazungumza kwa sababu ya umaarufu wa watoto hawa
Akihojiwa na TRUE Love Tanasha alionekana kuashiria kwamba mamake Diamond alikuwa akifanya muingilio mkubwa wa uhusiano wao ili kumthibiti mwanawe na huenda hilo pia liichangia kutengana kwao
FIRST, ALL MOTHERS SHOULD BE RESPECTED. AT THE END OF THE DAY. IT GETS TO A POINT THEY GET A LITTLE CONTROLLING AND THAT IS WHERE YOU HAVE TO SET YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES, ‘ alisema
AND LET THEM KNOW, I’M THE WRONG PERSON TO CONTROL, DARLING. IT ALL BOILS DOWN AGAIN TO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU?’ SHE SAID.
DON’T DISRESPECT ANYONE’S MOTHER. NEVER DISRESPECT ANYONE’S MOTHER. TRY AND SET THE BOUNDARIES IN A RESPECTFUL WAY. AND DO SO IN THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Aliongeza kwamba katika uhusiano kila mmoja anafaa kuwa tayari kumtetea mwanamke kutoka kwa jamaa za upande wa mwanamme
HE OR SHE SHOULD ALSO TAKE INITIATIVE AND SAY, ‘HEY LOOK! THIS IS MY WOMAN/MAN DO NOT CROSS CERTAIN BOUNDARIES OR MAKE THEM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE.LOOK DEEP WITHIN YOURSELF AND ASK, ‘ARE YOU WILLING TO PUT UP WITH THIS BS? OR AM I GONNA LEAVE?.